Here's some wedding photography reality that many don't want to admit!

One of my favorite jokes in photographic circles is the one that goes: "What's the difference between an amateur photographer and a professional? The professional throws out the bad photos before showing them to the client."

Although there may be a hint of truth in that joke I have been in this business long enough to know there is a lot more to being a professional than just that. Many photographers, who are just beginning to do professional photography, work very hard to create an air of mystique about the 'secret and mysterious' art of professional photography. Some carry it to the point of arrogance.

If a photographers photos look just like 'everyone elses' they will often try very hard in other areas to separate themselves from the masses. They throw in a lot of extras in their packages to make up for their photography, they talk about their expensive equipment, names drop about their clients, talk up their latest book and brag on their awards, certificates, degrees and credentials, etc.

I don't feel like I am in competition with every other photographer because I know if you put 3 photographers in a row, taking pictures of the exact same thing, my photos will look substantially different than the other two. I want you to see the reality of the type of photos I take that way you will have a realistic understanding of what you're really getting. We post ALL the images from every wedding on my wedding album photography website and have hundreds of 'my favorites'. Too often photographers that limit what they want you to see only set you up for disappointment later because the reality of what they will do for you won't match the fantasy they lead you to believe.

I work with a lot of talented people, artists, photographers, art directors, etc. I know that what one person may think is a 'bad' photo my actually be the favorite of another. A very traditional, crisp & clean, 'look at the camera and smile' type person may not like my artistic grainy, blurry or ethereal photos.

The majority of my customers are more sophisticated and intelligent than the masses therefore the majority of my clients don't like just getting the 'edited' pictures or the only ones that the photographer deems as good. My tastes don't always exactly match that of my clients. Nor am I going to pretend that every picture I take is perfect. (Some can be improved through cropping, re-touching and digital modifications.) Most my clients are thrilled to get the good, the bad and the ugly! This allows you to choose your favorites, the ones that you feel best portray your own personal moods, feelings, emotions and details of your unique event.

Creative people love to be part of the creative process and I welcome that. There are other photographers that prefer to work with the masses and will herd you into exactly what everyone else got, they will tell you what photos you must use and how... not my style!

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